So we're arguing semantics. Then maybe I'm spoiled, because that is definitely the worst thing that's happened to me in my life.

[Or she just doesn't want to tell him anything else., which she doesn't, not exactly. It's rude to just dump all of your personal life on someone you don't even know, whose motivations you don't even know at that.]

Why do you want to know about things that were inflicted upon others anyway?